Five things women do that will not make a man act right in a relationship
Every woman wants a man who would act right for her, I am yet to see a lady who doesn’t want her man to be all nice and sweet to her, no matter how hard things may seem or how complicated she may be, perhaps I am yet to meet with her.
Because all a woman wants is a man who loves her unconditionally, listens to her, gives her loads of attention, compliments her, buys her gifts, gives her financial assistance, appreciates her, encourages her, makes her laugh etc, they tend to make oodles of sacrifices to make sure they get that which they crave, ‘A man who acts right for them’ .
But a lot of women fail to understand that there’s no manual for keeping a man, but hey! here’s a list of things that will not and can not make a man act right or stay in a relationship.
- Being a good woman
Being a good woman to a man does not guarantee he’ll treat you right, act right or stay with you. Oftentimes women hold on to relationships that has shown them every red flag possible and all closures there is.
In all of these, they still stick around being loyal, being respectful, not nagging, not being materialistic, not being clingy, showing only love and support to the man, his family and even his friends in hopes that someday this man would look her way and have a change of heart towards her but it never happens because men don’t care whether you are a good woman or not, they only want what they want.
Sex! A lot of people think sex sustains a relationship because they think it creates a bond between the man and the woman, but i tell you sis a man only bonds with whom he wants to bond with.
If a man can have sex with two to three random girls in a day what makes you think your sex can keep him? the different stunts you pull in bed? you turn 360? It doesn’t matter how you do it, a man can be in bed with you this minute, the next minute he doesn’t want nothing with you.
3. Supporting his dreams
Men don’t care if you at any time supported their dreams or helped them achieve their dreams. They also do not care if you assisted them financially, or helped them own their dream home or job. They are always going to go ahead and love who they want regardless. Sometimes they even collect your money and give to the other woman.
Never think helping a man achieve his dreams creates a room in his heart for you.
4. Buying him gifts
Men love to have women buy them gifts too but honestly it can’t make them fall in love with you, just as gifts don’t make some women fall in love with men.
5. Chasing them
Chasing a man makes a woman susceptible to psychological and emotional abuse. Though sometimes women get lucky with chasing a man but in many instances it doesn’t end well because the woman is alone in love.
In other quarters, a man can only stay in a relationship or act right when he decides to, not because of what a woman does or says.
Be guarded my ladies!